You know its pretty cool to have someone to call yours,always got someone to laugh with,always got someone to hug kiss,cuddle whenever you're lonely they are there for you.its nice to have companionship, it also means their bullshit becomes your bullshit and vice versa....it means there will be bad times and plenty of them. I feel like all over social media we have things like kissing videos,cuddling vedios,but they don't really show the dark side,the behind the scenes,the struggle that people put in just to have this few happy moments.
So everyone is like "oh I need a girl,I need a boyfriend, I'll treat them so right,this and that"you'll talk all this crap about what y'all gonna do,but when you finally in a good relationship at the sight of any little problem,you want to just be over with the person,you want to give up fast. Everything is always not working out so we have to split up....what did you think it was going to be like????? Just all hugs and kisses?? Did yoyou not think there was going to be problems, jealousy and insecurity???
You think you're ready for a relationship..... Sure you want all the hugs and kisses,sure you want a companion to share all the happy moments with. But are you ready for the sleepless nights? Are you ready for the crying? Are you ready for the hurts??? Are you ready to feel insecure and paranoid????
People are all here breaking up with each other because they hurt each other...what the heck!?! Some people be like " I need to find someone that's not gonna hurt me;" I'm really sorry to break it to you sweetie, But everyone is going to hurt you. Ain't nobody perfect,you have to be patient;its not about who's gonna hurt you but its about who's worth the pain,who is worth loosing sleep over..
If you want happy moments in a relationship, its something you have to work for..you have to take the good and the bad.. Be patient enough and you'll find yourself a good man or woman.
You just hit the nail on the head dear. Your posts really makes sense.
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