Tuesday, 12 July 2016

Why is love so hard to find????

So I've been sitting here all alone,thinking of "love" that works some people find dreadful, while others think its impossible to find,and others simply think it doesn't exist..... Hmmmmm.....I can
't just stop thinking about it,why is love so so hard to find?????....oh before that lemme ask...why can't we all find people who are willing to love?...why does everyone just want sex first?,, OK fine!!!! Maybe sex is the lceing on the cake...but why is love so so hard to find???.. I look around me sometimes and I see lovers but then the next thing I know they've broken up😱 and am like where did it all go sour??....i personally think love isn't a fairy tale,, love can fine you anytime but then,you have to open your heart to it....I know we all hear about this everyday....heck,we find love everyday as a friend told me......but why is true love so hard to find??

3 comments:

  1. I believe love is out there for everyone..but the problem is that this current generation see real love as old fashioned..now people are more about pleasure than happiness with someone and its sad..you always hear women complaining that there aren't and good men anymore or they are all about sex..cant blame them for thinking that way because we forget how to to fall for someone..doing everything to impress that person ect..

    So dont give up on love..its out there but i think one has to be a lil lucky as well..keep your heart opend to it but be wise and in time you may find that person that completes you☺

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  2. True love is out there for people that are willing and ready to love but its rare,like 99% outta 100%...a lot of guys aint ready for one....99 of them want sex and then for d girls having an intention to love falls into d trap and jilted causing her to adjust, the thought of finding love(d initial motive)is gone...thus the remaining 1% that are willing to love fall victim to d already damaged heart...so you see...its complex..more like true luv is complicated somehow

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  3. Exactly and women would be bitter or stop being opend to love anymore thus making even harder for the 1% good guys that really look to love a wonan and thats the reality..They would end up with FWB..(friends with benefits ) because that has no emotional attachment tk it..no getting hurt in the end because its just pleasure so the cycle keep repeating itself.

    So i say dont give up on love..we are 7b on this earth so there are many fish in the sea..you know u got to sit and wait to catch a big fish..lol well being patient is might bring some luck..be open to love but be wiser at the same time.

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