AM BACK!!!!

Hello guys, am so sorry I've been MIA for a while... I had exams and i really didn't have time to blog...but am back,....school sweet o but na exam kuku spoil am....we have some lecturers that just want to frustrate us but mehn"amo shine when amo shine"...lol....so stay tuned for that latest gist 👍😁

Morning dose

Have a wonderful day and don't forget to show someone love today....

Wetin you dey find for sokoto dey your shokotó

Its really funny how a girl particularly would have so many guys in her life and still feel lonely.... And sometimes she has this one guy pestering her,praying she could just take a look at him and know he wants to really try and love her....funny right???...the thing is we all know this guy but the problem sometimes is he doesn't just fit into our "dream guy" most times we even friend zone him and keep getting hurt by the ones who pretent to genuinely care for us...we ignore the ones who'd care for us,clean out tears when we feel hurt,the ones who'll treat us like a queen even with the little they have .....every girl makes this mistake......we always go for the ones who'd promise us heaven and earth but can't fulfill anyone, the ones who are just there to taste the cookie,the ones who would hurt us at the slightest opportunity..... The ones who wrong us but yet we go on our knees to beg for forgiveness because we don't want to loose them..... We always forget about that one guy who is always waiting and wishing they could treat us right.
Most of us realize this after we're tired of getting hurt and just decide to play along even after ages of this guys waiting for us....and then bam!!!!! It hits us hard when we realize this has been the guy all along.....the thing is..God doesn't always give us what we like,he gives us what is good for us... Even when we hate it but as time goes we adjust our perception and realize that he always does the best for us...
     MORAL LESSON: FRIEND ZONE WITH SENSE....in every bad okrika boutique cloth dey inside....OK...I just form that one...hehehe....bye

Things to consider before dreaming of that fairy tale LOVE....

You know its pretty cool to have someone to call yours,always got someone  to laugh with,always got someone to hug kiss,cuddle whenever you're lonely they are there for you.its nice to have companionship, it also means their bullshit becomes your bullshit and vice versa....it means there will be bad times and plenty of them. I feel like all over social media we have things like kissing videos,cuddling vedios,but they don't really show the dark side,the behind the scenes,the struggle that people put in just to have this few happy moments.
  So everyone is like "oh I need a girl,I need a boyfriend, I'll treat them so right,this and that"you'll talk all this crap about what y'all gonna do,but when you finally in a good relationship at the sight of any little problem,you want to just be over with the person,you want to give up fast. Everything is always not working out so we have to split up....what did you think it was going to be like????? Just all hugs and kisses?? Did yoyou not think there was going to be problems, jealousy and insecurity???
  You think you're ready for a relationship..... Sure you want all the hugs and kisses,sure you want a companion to share all the happy moments with. But are you ready for the sleepless nights? Are you ready for the crying? Are you ready for the hurts??? Are you ready to feel insecure and paranoid????
People are all here breaking up with each other because they hurt each other...what the heck!?! Some people be like " I need to find someone that's not gonna hurt me;" I'm really sorry to break it to you sweetie, But everyone is going to hurt you. Ain't nobody perfect,you have to be patient;its not about who's gonna hurt you but its about who's worth the pain,who is worth loosing sleep over..
If you want happy moments in a relationship, its something you have to work for..you have to take the good and the bad.. Be patient enough and you'll find yourself a good man or woman.

How to love

Hello everyone its been a while I posted here do forgive me,school things noni....well I bumped into this good stuff written by my roommate #Esyshyninstar...as she likes to be called.....grab a bottle of coke and gala and enjoy......

     "If we want to truly love,we must return again and again to the great love of the great lovers"-its only when you allow God to love you and to experience his unfailing love,his unconditional grace and mercy that you'll be able to extend the same kind of grace and mercy to another person,especially the person who hurts you.

  Sometimes we forget how to love,something we forget what made us fall in love in the very first place, To the men"Treat her like you're still trying to win her,and that's how you'll never loose her" and to my dear lovely ladies"Treat him like a king...Rome wasn't built in a day....success takes time,help build your man up and you'll be the Queen in his palace"

Should guys know how to cook?

So,I hear guys say that if a girl can't cook she ain't no wife material.....really?...meanwhile, some of y'all can't even boil water....in my opinion everyone should know how to cook.....cooking should be the responsibility of anyone..... I know most people will disagree because in a traditional African home women are suppose to be in the kitchen.... So educated men still watch TV while their wife is cooking..... I just feel cooking should be fun....help a lady out in the kitchen, its  not a crime.I specifically live guys that can Cooke...in fact sef its a total turn on. Some men will swear never to get near the kitchen when they're married,boy.....she's  a wife not a chef...no turn am to slave because you don marry am. But then some guys are just exceptional cooks they can just drive your taste buds crazy with good food....there's nothing as sexy as seeing a man in the kitchen trying to make something for their woman even if she can cook..so men Learn how to cook mbok cos as for me ehn.....he gotta know how to cook

Short gowns.....yay or nay

Short sexy gown Is a must have in a girls' closet cos when you want to feel very sexy and classy.....its the answer!!

LOL....this is so so true

Life is precious

So I woke up to read about the mayhem in France that more than 80 people..... Really.... Why does people' life feel so irrelevant to others? Why can't we respect that others also like yourself live to live and enjoy life??? It seems its gives people so much joy this days to kill claiming it is the will of the creator.... Excuse me,but I don't think the creator created you or anyone to be an instrument of distruction........people take lives like its just so easy.....even  boko haram killings in Nigeria has almost become a normal thing,people don't get shocked anymore or even concerned about the killings.....I get so worried about my friends in the north when I hear about a bomb blast.., the nation don't really feel the pain of loosing its citizens but relations do...they continue to feel the emptiness when they are gone....it really is painful.😢😢

Older or younger...which do you prefer?

So this brings me to this playful topic....lol...pls don't be shy....I've heard some girls and guys prefer them older for different reasons...and some younger for other reasons��...so I asked a few friends which was their choice.....lol.....their answers was so hilarious....well,some said they love older men who they call "sugar daddy" or "sugar mummy" as the case may be, because they understand them better and are more caring,,financially and otherwise... While some say the younger ones can do better in bed and are even more romantic �� though not financially stable.....I personally think its just a matter of choice.....I have seen many things in uniuyo hall 3B...chaii....truth be said mehn....older men they top the list....as in ehn.....girl ain't looking at this small boys or as I've come to know they call them "fuckboys" you'll see different cars coming to stop girls....lol....a guy once told me "if you wan carry girl for uniuyo,just borrow car come toast them" I must say...that's the case with girls in the university this days. Whats your take on this?

Why is love so hard to find????

So I've been sitting here all alone,thinking of "love" that works some people find dreadful, while others think its impossible to find,and others simply think it doesn't exist..... Hmmmmm.....I can

't just stop thinking about it,why is love so so hard to find?????....oh before that lemme ask...why can't we all find people who are willing to love?...why does everyone just want sex first?,, OK fine!!!! Maybe sex is the lceing on the cake...but why is love so so hard to find???.. I look around me sometimes and I see lovers but then the next thing I know they've broken up😱 and am like where did it all go sour??....i personally think love isn't a fairy tale,, love can fine you anytime but then,you have to open your heart to it....I know we all hear about this everyday....heck,we find love everyday as a friend told me......but why is true love so hard to find??